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WHAT DO YOU NEED TO GET STARTED IN BDSM?

The practice of BDSM, in addition to a lot of responsibility, requires high doses of other qualities. Do you want to know what else you need?

THERE ARE COUNTLESS ACCESSORIES THAT CAN HELP YOU ENTER THE WORLD OF BDSM. YOU CAN GO TESTING AND CHOOSE WHAT YOU LIKE THE MOST.

1. IMAGINATION Remember that in BDSM you will assume your role throughout the game. It is also possible, especially in lighter or initiation BDSM practices, that roles are exchanged even within the same experience. You will need high doses of imagination and creativity to be able to transform yourself and maintain your role during the session.

2. OPEN MIND BDSM will be something new for you, so keep an open mind to experimentation. Make room for new experiences and remember that we are here to have fun.

3. TRUST It is very important that there is full trust on both sides. Confidence in the other will make you get carried away during the game, and the final experience will be much more pleasant if you only focus on the pleasure.

4. YOU WIN Make sure you win! BDSM is also a matter of attitude. The desire to try, to enter the game … everything adds points when it comes to making the experience more pleasant.

GET INFORMED AND LEARN To get started in BDSM we recommend that you inform yourself very well before taking the step. Look for true stories, anecdotes, stories …  Surely you can learn a lot from other people who have already gone through that experience.

COMMUNICATION IS VITAL Talk about what you are going to do and how far. Communication is very important, even more so if you still don’t know your partner deeply. Let us remember that we are entering a game of domination where everything must be agreed by both parties. Make your limits very clear and the use of the safe word, if necessary.

EQUIPMENT IS KEY Depending on the discipline you want to tackle, you will need a series of accessories to help you get into the role and be able to follow the role you have chosen.

START SMALL It is very important for the sub to get used to the pain, but also for the master to familiarize himself with his reactions to know what he is feeling and if he can continue. Increase the intensity little by little, there is always time to go more.

Be especially careful with whipping. Neither too strong nor too weak … surely you will find a middle ground from which to start. As for the ties, we recommend that you do not tie too complex knots that you cannot untie later, or that you tie very strong knots in areas likely to cut off circulation.

ALWAYS HAVE AN EMERGENCY SOLUTION Not what you want, but sometimes something can go wrong. It would be interesting to have some utensils on hand that can get you out of trouble at the right time. Some scissors for that knot that does not want to loosen, or a small medicine cabinet with alcohol, bandages, arnica, etc. to calm the marks of an intense session … It never hurts to be prepared.

And don’t forget, all BDSM practices must comply with the maximum SSC of  Sensible, Safe and Consensual.

5. GET WELL EQUIPPED! If you are thinking of starting  there are countless accessories and toys that will help you build your role at all times  within any of the BDSM disciplines.

Grips and ties:  If you are thinking about Bondage, you will need all kinds of items to be able to keep the other party tied during the session. There are a lot of everyday objects that are easy to find at home and that surely can help you: a tie, some rope, a piece of cloth with a pleasant touch ..

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