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TIPS TO GET STARTED IN BDSM

Being curious about a new practice is great, but it’s important to educate yourself well and follow a few simple tips before getting started on something unfamiliar to you.

IF YOU ARE ALREADY DETERMINED, OUR TIPS TO GET STARTED SAFELY IN BDSM WILL COME IN HANDY.

If you are curious, go ahead! Open your mind,  talk to your partner, learn and experiment together until you reach a discipline in which you feel comfortable within your own limits.

Remember that the purpose of BDSM is none other than that of obtaining pleasure, and that all practices have to comply with the SSC: Sensible, Safe and consensual. So do you dare to try …?

DEFINE THE RULES AND ENJOY

We must be very clear that BDSM is a discipline that seeks the pleasure of both parties, both the submissive part and the part that acts as a master. In this game the use of pain has a pleasant end. Things that a submissive may not like on their own will make him feel excited about pleasing his master. And the opposite also happens, as a master you are somehow pleasing your submissive and that provides pleasure.

The Dominant woman who embodies most of the imagination of anyone who enters the world of Bdsm is the Dominatrix, professional mistresses , some of great prestige who are very active on social networks, give interviews, have YouTube channels, they write books. Others, more discreet, manage their activities from their own websites or blogs.

They feed the archetypal image of a dominant woman and show the curious study images and photos of sessions before the astonished eyes, enhancing the desire of the submissive men and women who approach their domains. Many of them display great intelligence and wisdom when it comes to pressing through images and comments the desire for submission of those who contemplate it.

They tend to be very strict when it comes to maintaining their image of an unattainable, untouchable and perfect woman, specifying, in most cases, their practices, knowledge, desires, limits and highlighting the absence in conventional sex sessions.

They display multiple fetishisms, all in order to enhance their dominating image in leather, latex and extreme heels, highlighting their image of a distant and elevated superior woman over the ordinary, everyday woman. An enlarged image of femininity with capital letters. Object, not subject, of adoration.

Converted into the paradigm of the Mistress par excellence , the one who makes use of her Dominion before the man who observes her ecstatically as an object of worship and adoration, dehumanizing her and elevating her to the category of objectual goddess.

The submissive / client is not interested in the woman but in her Dominant woman fantasy and pays, if he can, to get it. Such payment can make Ella even more unaffordable if her finances don’t allow her to return, increasing distance and dependent worship once tried.

If the Dominatrix happened to be everyday, the dimension of physical and real distance would give way to the appearance of the real woman, the person woman. That many submissives are not interested in.

The submissives who seek sessions with them usually do so to satisfy their specific fantasies , married submissives, those in session, that is, those who do not want any type of commitment beyond the punctual delivery limited between the margins of the hour that they pay, and those who do not find real non-professional mistresses. Apart from curious people who, driven by morbidness, wish to try a goddess.

The Dominatrix keep cabinets or dungeons well stocked with instruments, furniture, toys and other objects necessary for their practices. They must know how to control many techniques, have knowledge of first aid as well as the hygiene of the instruments. In the event that this is not the case, it is not worth risking, health comes first.

Fantasy makers display a playlist where the submissive / client indicates their tastes and their limits. From there it is up to you. They are usually very cautious and selective when assessing the mental balance of the person with whom they are going to work.

Not all submissives look for professionals although they may want to experience it, many look for a Mistress who feels in a real way to be able to give themselves with greater intensity and for that they need and need to notice their pleasure. Some see the Dominatrix too high, too object. Object of adoration but not of its delivery.

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