Femdom

GENTLE FEMDOM

Since a few days ago I found this thread on the Dungeon website raised by FUCKSIA, I have been thinking about the term Gentle FemDom or sensual FemDom and everything that it encompasses. The thread reminded me that when I started researching FemDom I came across this form of Domination on some page of a Mistress that, of course, I don’t remember, and it caught my attention. There it was explained, I don’t know if under this name, I have a very bad memory, what Female Domination is, emphasizing the power almost exclusively of the woman’s own femininity.She made recommendations on how to feel powerful, how to highlight the enhancing elements of visual fetishism that derive from that femininity, from that self-assurance accentuated in the need for submission of the man who prostrates at her feet knowing of his superiority and eager to feel it.

If the professional FemDom highlights the archetype of a supernatural, ruthless, cruel, merciless, unattainable woman over a fearful, yearning and generally masochistic submissive, the Gentle FemDom underlines the feminine typology adjacent to the maternal and sweet , where The submissive not only prostrates himself but is sheltered, pampered and reinforced in his defenselessness before the gaze of a subtle Mistress, kind but aware of his power based on his capacity for seduction. The Mistress , in this case, makes use of all her seductive capacity to lead the submissive to obey her without abrupt gestures , without raising her voice, almost without punishment, in a playful and mocking way, making him discover his most tender side in her submission. without neglecting his masculinity.

For quite a few submissives, this first typology of Dominatrix reminds them of masculinized gestures with those who do not get into a role because they see it histrionic, on the other hand, with the second typology they do want to be subdued. Like there are women who do not come out to be harsh and ruthless and are still Dominant.

If we observe social networks a little, we will surely realize that in most FemDom profiles there is hardly any use of seduction , especially since I believe that the highest percentage of these profiles belong to professionals who usually show real images of sessions Of course, if they want to demonstrate their good professional work, they  already findom that they do not usually have time to seduce but to attract followers quickly and efficiently through very specific insults to the extent that their whims are triggered. This generalist vision and biased by the greater visibility of these profiles would give us to think about whether or not there is something different from FemDom. Could there be a FemDom closer to a romantic relationship? Of course there is.

In Spanish-speaking pages it is not frequent to find this vision of Female Domination although I have the feeling that it is the most frequent type of Domination among Amateur Domination. Women who intimate sessions with their partners or with other people without having to give any image to the outside. A type of sensual Domination not based on sadism   but on the need to prioritize your will over that of man. Make him your toy for your pleasure but without losing an iota of your femininity or adopting a tough or masculine image when submitting.

Although it may be somewhat surprising, if I remember the innumerable conversations that I have had with submissives, the vast majority of them, of those who offered a serene, calm and sincere conversation, not those that are offered in the first message, what they were looking for it was just this kind of sensual Domination . They were looking for a judicious Mistress to submit to, who would seduce them and they could have something of a future. They were not satisfied with isolated sessions, they wanted a lasting relationship with someone who would be able to subdue them in the long term. A Mistress who would earn their trust, who would seduce and subdue them slowly until making them his own. A Mistress aware of the psychological aspects of the submissive and aware of their needs and desires. I was surprised, to a great extent, thatimplicit romanticism with which they viewed a FemDom submission Domination relationship . I was surprised because it seemed far from the canons without noticing that what they were trying to express was that they were looking for a kind, sensible and loving Mistress who would make them experience that their submission and their dedication is something wonderful and valued by Her.

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