Do you ever feel insecure? No, because I learned how to get and treat customers. Also, if someone is really submissive to you, it is impossible that they want to harm you. You started a submission relationship with yourself, why? After working as a professional mistress, I was gradually introduced to the world of BDSM ( Bondage, Domination, Sadism, Masochism) I was so used to devoting all my energy to controlling other people, that I ended up wanting someone to practice the same thing with me, I knew someone to do it with, so we gave it a try. However, it was not great because he was not sane enough…

Despite the “anything goes” appearance that exists on the internet and on social media, BDSM has some rules . These rules are adaptable to the personal characteristics and conditions of each one, but there are rules. In addition, it is not a child’s game without consequences since there are potentially dangerous practices, not only physically, but mentally. This is clear when reality begins to be known and lived. It is in this way when one perceives the need for the normative if something is to work within this world.. Anything goes in BDSM can lead to tremendous conflict and dissatisfaction, that people lose themselves thinking that all their desires will…

The other day I gave an initiation talk to BDSM. It was a pleasure to be able to share with others basic aspects of BDSM and conclude with a time for questions. One of the questions they asked me was this: how do you learn to be Dominant? It is a good question and a complex question. I have thought about that question a lot. It is also a question that is usually found in social networks, formulated in an abbreviated way with, is the Dominant, born or made? I believe that certain things should be clarified first. It would be necessary to ask what is to be Dominant? A…

The most important role a Sensual Dom plays is to ensure the mental and physical safety of a  submissive , especially a newbie who has no idea what will happen during her first few sessions. The second key role the “Sensual Dom” plays is understanding the physical, sexual and psychological triggers that will unleash it sexually. The next 5 questions set the boundaries of safe play and also uncover some key sexual and psychological triggers to help a sub reach the next level of sexual response. 1) What are your hard BDSM limits? (Scat, urine, golden shower, needles, knives, fire, medical game, verbal or physical humiliation, caging, severe pain…) This…

Being curious about a new practice is great, but it’s important to educate yourself well and follow a few simple tips before getting started on something unfamiliar to you. IF YOU ARE ALREADY DETERMINED, OUR TIPS TO GET STARTED SAFELY IN BDSM WILL COME IN HANDY. If you are curious, go ahead! Open your mind,  talk to your partner, learn and experiment together until you reach a discipline in which you feel comfortable within your own limits. Remember that the purpose of BDSM is none other than that of obtaining pleasure, and that all practices have to comply with the SSC: Sensible, Safe and consensual. So do you dare to…

The practice of BDSM, in addition to a lot of responsibility, requires high doses of other qualities. Do you want to know what else you need? THERE ARE COUNTLESS ACCESSORIES THAT CAN HELP YOU ENTER THE WORLD OF BDSM. YOU CAN GO TESTING AND CHOOSE WHAT YOU LIKE THE MOST. 1. IMAGINATION Remember that in BDSM you will assume your role throughout the game. It is also possible, especially in lighter or initiation BDSM practices, that roles are exchanged even within the same experience. You will need high doses of imagination and creativity to be able to transform yourself and maintain your role during the session. 2. OPEN MIND BDSM…

TO START, WHAT IS AND WHAT IS NOT BDSM? When we refer to BDSM we are not talking about a single sexual practice, but  within these 4 letters different disciplines are hidden.  Practicing BDSM does not mean that all the variants are carried out in the same sexual experience. Everyone can decide how much of each discipline they will experience or if they prefer to focus on only one of them. If you want to know what BDSM really is, we must first understand what is hidden behind each of these letters. THE ACRONYMS BDSM CORRESPOND TO BONDAGE, DISCIPLINE, DOMINATION, SUBMISSION, SADISM AND MASOCHISM. BONDAGE It comes from the same…

The best bed tricks from those who know the most. Feel like dominating under the covers? Then you have reached the indicated article. The US edition of HuffPost has reached out to several professional dominatrix professionals for their most helpful and affordable advice for couples who want to add more fantasy to their sex life. Warning: no need to go for the whip. Make a sexual wish list “When I start working with couples, my first advice is that they set a date in which they only dedicate themselves to making a list of sexual desires. To make it easier, I recommend classifying them in three columns: green zone, yellow…